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Dianne Toebe (author) with Lance Mackey in 2007 at the Iditarod Banquet in Nome |
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Just about everyone in Alaska has heard of the name Lance
Mackey, the iconic dog musher who is the "winningest" musher ever. He has won
four consecutive Iditarod races and four consecutive Yukon Quest races, including
two of those as back to back Quest and Iditarod wins. Most Alaskans also know
the hardships in life that Mackey has endured and the obstacles from health
problems related to past cancer and treatment. What isn't as well known is his
compassion and caring for other people, especially those experiencing health
issues, such as cancer.
About a year after his fourth Iditarod win, a special friend
of mine and a long-time fan of Lance Mackey was seriously ill with lung cancer,
having endured radiation and chemotherapy in the prior year. She was the one
whose enthusiasm in 2007 got me to follow that Iditarod closely as she reported
to me early in the race that Dick Mackey's son was the musher to watch as he
was destined to win the 2007 race. Now, I knew who Dick Mackey was, the winner
of the 1978 Iditarod, whose lead dog crossed the finish line in Nome one second
before Rick Swenson's lead dog, although Rick Swenson himself crossed the
finish line before Dick Mackey did. I had read the book "One Second to Glory."
I knew that Dick Mackey had been instrumental in cutting out the Iditarod trail
from Anchorage to Nome along with Joe Redington. But my friend, Chris, she was truly a
believer in Lance and his team and was certain that he was the musher to watch,
so I did. I got a daily report from Chris and I spent evenings at her house,
while her husband made us dinner, and we were glued to TV and news updates and
kept calling the Iditarod 248-MUSH hotline for updates.
And then Lance won his first 1,000-mile Iditarod race and he
made history by winning this Iditarod race with the same dog team that had just
weeks before won the 1,000-mile Yukon Quest race from Whitehorse, Canada to
Fairbanks, Alaska. Each of his dogs was pictured on the front page of the
Anchorage Daily News. Many said Lance Mackey's win was a ‘fluke,' but Lance
continued to win and win all types of races all over the state. Chris continued
being a devoted fan and I was now hooked, too. We cheered Lance on from afar
and even met him at Iditarod events, getting autographs while basking in his
warm personality towards every fan at every event.
Then, Chris in 2010 quite suddenly was diagnosed with lung
cancer and her life was turned upside down. Instead of chasing dog races, she
became consumed with doctors' appointments, medical tests, chemo, and radiation
therapy. There was hope and remission, but eventually she had to face her
physical body becoming weaker and weaker and the treatment no longer helping
her. However, she never lost interest in Lance's career or his success and we
spent much time talking about his race moves, his dogs, and his championships.
Chris's husband and I used to tease her that Lance was the top musher while she
was his top fan.
I felt helpless and sad, wishing I could make Chris whole
again, wishing we could keep cheering Lance on, but it wasn't to be. Chris' treatments
were stopped, and she knew that life was ebbing from her body fast. Chris
became concerned with comfort care and was in hospice. Then, I started to
wonder if a celebrity like Lance Mackey might just possibly make a phone call
to Chris. It wouldn't have to be long, just touch base with her. Wouldn't that
be a beautiful thing for Chris. I knew that that would mean the world to her.
I timidly set about figuring how I could make this
connection, without letting Chris know and not promising her anything. I knew
that Lance was training hard with his team at the time. How would I approach
this? Finally, I called Lance's wife and found out that this was possible but
with complex logistics as Lance was gone on multi day training runs, plus
training himself and packing his food drops for the upcoming Iditarod race.
Chris was also not physically able to participate in a phone call just at any
time of the day either. She was taking pain meds and suffering physical
discomfort.
However, the coordination happened and one day Lance's wife
called me and said that Lance was due to return from an overnight training run
in subzero temperatures. He would need to help his handlers get the dogs fed
and bedded down then would come into the house and be ready to call Chris! And
Chris was ready. We told her that Lance was going to call her. She was in
disbelief and I cannot possibly describe her expressions of pleasure and
elation as she waited for the phone to ring. Would Lance really take time for
this call? Would this really happen? Would Lance really know what this call
would mean to a woman dying from cancer? Could there be anyone else in the
world who could make Chris feel this way?
And then the phone rang, and it was Lance, calling Chris,
one of his thousands of fans worldwide, whom he probably couldn't recall at
least without a picture from an event. But no time for that and it didn't
matter. Just so that Lance touched base with her. I didn't know if he was
comfortable talking with people who were dying. What would he say? Chris'
husband and I left the room, so I don't know exactly what Lance and Chris
talked about, but I know that the call lasted over an hour and I know how Chris
felt after the call. She was living a dream. Lance Mackey had called her!
Lance had given her his time and his undivided interest. He
had provided comfort that no one else could. Chris told us that they talked
about having cancer, about his experience having cancer diagnosed after running
his first Iditarod, about all the people he has met since then who have cancer
and he shared their experiences and his. He listened to Chris' experiences to
her personal journey and provided comfort and empathy. He also gave her life
affirmation as he reviewed her life with her, as she reviewed his life with
him. They connected. Lance cared and could relate to Chris. He was not afraid
to talk and to listen to her as she was dying of cancer. He comforted Chris. I
will never forget this gift that Lance gave to Chris.
Chris' husband summed up that evening and phone call with:
"The greatest musher in the world who could comfort his greatest fan as she was
leaving this world." What a gift Lance
has.
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